"So-and-so wants to chat with you; allow?" text is very subtle
I have a chat window open with various people. And also there's the original window that lists my contacts. Since I don't use it much, I let it fall behind lots of other windows.
I happened to look at that window just now, and it had a little note at the top saying "So-and-so wants to chat with you. Allow?"
I wonder how long that note has been sitting there, ignored by me. Maybe the window should make it more prominent, or maybe the other window should be notifying me that the contacts window has something that wants my attention? Or maybe there is some other good idea for improving the UX here?