I've put comment changes in separate commits to log message changes.
And I've separated out the changes to the Alice/Bob client/hidden service terminology. Personally, I find it confusing, but as it's conventional usage in cryptography, I'm happy to keep Alice/Bob.
Ack; calling relays "he" is a bit silly. And while we once had our entire HS protocol described in terms of "Alice" and "Bob", we haven't really done that for about a decade, and it sure doesn't belong in the log messages. Merged.
(We don't do changes files for comments-only changes.)
Relay operators and users remain free to assign whatever gender they like to their computers and the software they are running.
(And please nobody give me any crap about "they" in the singular or I'll get out my Chaucer.)
Trac: Status: new to closed Resolution: N/Ato fixed
teor: this wasn't "unsavory people" looking to dox you snarking this ticket, it was someone right here in the Tor community too nervous about the social power associated with viewpoints like this to oppose openly. Ironically, I couldn't find any objection to this if it had been proposed on the grounds of grammar, but this ideologically motivated business of reading malintent into what's clearly actually a rather common grammatical mistake for Romance-language native speakers with imperfect English is dangerous, and caving to it on small matters invites more of it on big ones.
And before somebody goes omg teh hegemony, nick is saying that disagreement is creepy, that's not what I'm talking about. It's the trolling that is creepy.
teor: this wasn't "unsavory people" looking to dox you snarking this ticket, it was someone right here in the Tor community too nervous about the social power associated with viewpoints like this to oppose openly. Ironically, I couldn't find any objection to this if it had been proposed on the grounds of grammar, but this ideologically motivated business of reading malintent into what's clearly actually a rather common grammatical mistake for Romance-language native speakers with imperfect English is dangerous, and caving to it on small matters invites more of it on big ones.
Thanks for letting me know what you were trying to achieve. I couldn't tell what was going on, or how many people were involved, or why it was happening, or what outcome people wanted. Can we stick to the topic of the ticket next time?
(Challenging social power dynamics by making off-topic comments on a bug tracking system is unlikely to change much - it's not a place or method I've ever seen work.)
I think we are more alike than you realise:
we both fear that people who disagree with us will attack us for our views,
we both agree that making minor grammatical fixes improves the readability of comments,
neither of us read malintent into grammatical mistakes or writing styles. (I used "gendered" as descriptive term - I didn't realise how politically laden it was.)
I am sorry that you don't feel you can associate your objections with your preferred handle or public identity. I am sorry that you don't feel free to speak out because of social power dynamics. There are places I can't speak out or participate because of my views or identities. It's a really awful experience.
I am happy to have a further conversation about this, but this ticket is not an appropriate venue. (Or I'm happy to consider the issue closed.) You know how to find me, and you can do so anonymously if you want. I can't, so be gentle in how you use your anonymity.